Amazing Me Yoga

Blog

Yoga and Mindfulness for children and Teens.

 

  • Home page
  • The Family Yoga Challenge
  • About Me
  • Services and Classes
    • Classes
    • Children's Yoga
  • Blog
  • Contact
  • Teachers
    • Free 8 week Lesson Plan
    • Shop more Resources
    • Facebook Group

7/12/2022

5 ways to know if your teen needs help with their anxiety and a few practices to try together!

0 Comments

Read Now
 
Picture
Anxiety can be challenging but parenting a teen with anxiety, that is something else. You just want to wrap them up in cotton wool and keep them safe from the world but that's exactly possible or even that helpful. The first step is realizing if your teen actually does have anxiety, what are the signs?

What is anxiety?

Anxiety is completely normal. It is a response that helps to keep us safe. It can actually be a really helpful thing. It is an adaptive survival response that helps us in dangerous situations. Anxiety is an emotional state of worry, fear or feeling nervous that is felt in the body -  symptoms of anxiety include heart beating faster, sweaty hands, lightheadedness, nausea, feeling easily fatigued, stomach cramps or buttery feelings, inability to fall asleep, body shaking, loss of appetite and more. 

When does anxiety become a problem?

While anxiety is normal and can actually help us, it becomes a problem for our teen when it starts to interfere with daily life. There are many different types of anxiety including social anxiety, death anxiety, anxiety related to school, separation anxiety and more. Teenagers may need help if they are experiencing any of the following on a regular basis;
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Missing school due to anxiety
  • Avoiding social situations
  • Wanting to stay with a parent at all times due to anxiety
  • Experiencing tummy aches, headaches, lump in the throat, shortness of breath, difficulty making eye contact (as a symptom of anxiety and not anything else)

They don't need to be experiencing all of these symptoms (or any of them), anxiety can look very different for each individual. 
​

How to help your teen


Have you noticed your teenager doesn't always listen to you? You could give them some golden advice but it doesn't mean they are always going to take it on board. Just avoid telling them 'not to worry'. It is very hard to just switch it off. I would suggest you don't try and do this alone. There are many things that you can do which I will come back to in a moment but just remembering you're not alone, can be really helpful. 

Mental health is important and taking care of it is essential. While I run classes that help children and teens manage their anxiety through Yoga, calming practices and creative mindfulness, it is important to note that there are other ways. They can blend together beautifully and some practices will resonate more than others for each individual. 
I would highly recommend therapy for a teen who is really struggling. Therapists have had years of training and so much experience in this area. I would highly recommend Somers Psychotherapy. Not only do they have appointments in person but also online. 

I will be running a workshop for anxiety and sleep over at Somers Psychotherapy for teenagers. More details about that can be found here >> Evening Rituals.
​


How to help your teen at home

Keeping a journal is a great place to start. It is good to be able to explore the feeling, what is triggering it and then be able to talk through it with a trusted person. It doesn't have to be just writing either, drawing and other creative outlets are also a great way to release. There are many different ways to journal, your teen may like to keep a gratitude journal, a dream journal, a bullet journal or invest in a journal with prompts designed to help with anxiety. 
There are other calming practices too such as walking, exercising, Yoga, meditation, mindful colouring and breathe work. 

Should you wait until your teen shows signs of anxiety to get help?

Anxiety is a part of life, as I said earlier, it is completely normal. You don't need to wait until it becomes a problem to learn helpful tools, techniques and practices to manage it, in fact it really helps to learn them before. This is why I love teaching children's Yoga, it is setting a foundation. Yoga and mindfulness is a practice and it helps to practice regularly, even for just five to ten minutes at a time. When children learn these practices they have them in their toolkit for when they need them the most. 

Practice together!

Here are a few great practices to try together to help manage anxiety and stress at home!

1. Mindful listening


​This is a great practice for connecting with each other. It lets your teen know that you are listening and that you care. So often we are half listening or don't know if our teen is hearing us! This activity works on both sides, we can both feel seen and heard and it can bridge any gaps. The idea here is that one person talks for 2 to 5 minutes (set a timer if you'd like) and the other person listens. The listener doesn't interrupt or add anything at all, they can just nod and show that they are listening, eye contact is also good here. When that person is finished, you simply thank them for sharing with you. You don't try to fix it or offer advice, you just let them know that you heard them. Then you switch roles. You don't have to talk about the same thing or respond, the talker just talks about any thing they need to in that moment. It may be tough at first, but don't end the time early just let the talker keep talking about anything that comes to mind - it doesn't have to be serious or a problem or about anything in particular. 

2. Practice Yoga - together!
There are so many videos available on Youtube or through programs etc. Find a style that your teen enjoys and practice together. I would highly recommend a book called 'Yoga for teens' by Shawna Schenk. 

3. Meditate together! 
Meditation has a range of benefits for your teen and for yourself. Try out this meditation I have recorded for you - Free >> Meditation for Anxiety

​
4. Schedule regular walks together. 
Take time just the two of you to get out for a walk, this could be each day or each week. I know it is not always easy to get one on one time especially when you have other children to care for but if it is an option, it can be such a nice way to de-stress and spend time together. 

What would you like to add?

What would you add as a parent of a teenager? I am not a parent of teenagers yet so it's always good to know what you would like to add. My jam is Yoga and mindfulness, I could talk it all day, and while I have studied anxiety and experienced my fair share as a teenager (and now) it is not the same as living it! I think that is the most important take-away. Trust your parenting intuition, read books about anxiety, and look after your own wellbeing - that will all help. 
Picture
Check out last weeks Blog post:  Why meditation is not going to help your teen with anxiety.

Share

0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

Details

    Author

    Natasha Bryant

    Archives

    March 2023
    February 2023
    January 2023
    December 2022
    November 2022
    August 2022
    July 2022
    May 2022
    March 2022
    February 2022
    January 2022
    December 2021
    November 2021
    September 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    October 2020
    September 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    November 2019
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018

    Categories

    All
    Children's Yoga And Mindfulness
    Christmas
    Intuition
    Meditations
    Parents
    Pose Of The Week
    Print Outs
    Self Care Challenge
    Teachers
    Teenagers

    RSS Feed

Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.
Photos used under Creative Commons from wuestenigel, cattan2011, mripp, FigoPhilm, Key West Wedding Photography, mats.hagwall
  • Home page
  • The Family Yoga Challenge
  • About Me
  • Services and Classes
    • Classes
    • Children's Yoga
  • Blog
  • Contact
  • Teachers
    • Free 8 week Lesson Plan
    • Shop more Resources
    • Facebook Group